In my previous post I elaborated on how to recognize and say goodbye to the collective madness. We’ll take it from there.
From nonsense to sense
Delusion is necessary in order to no longer trust the stereotypes from the collective madness. We have to act beyond the senses because we are presented with new irrational explanations, which are totally absurd.
How is it possible to go through a change management program in a company when people are appropriately conditioned, programmed and brainwashed?
Does the elite really want their people to wake up which eventually will lead to the collapse of the system?
Waking up starts with a strange feeling – something is wrong here. There is our possibility to recognize our own power and the power to get out of the structures. Leaving the hypnosis to seek something deeper, which is more connected to ourselves and not serving the interest of other people.
How can something new emerge? No one owns the absolute truth. However, those who claim we should talk and encourage a dialog try to influence the other to change their mind to believe in their opinion. We should remember that an opinion has no value unless we give a meaning to it.
If we try to recognize the substance like a sparkle of truth in the other opinion, it is a challenge. We start questioning our own position and our own opinion. Try to observe if the other opinion is causing any feelings or doubts about your opinion. Remember that no person or statement can cause an emotional reaction without you giving them permission to do so. We are responsible for our feelings and emotions – no one else. That is the key to inner and outer abundance. To recognize your shadow parts in yourself does not mean you need to denounce the other person who has the opposite opinion.
However, that is exactly what the majority does. Talk the other down to elevate yourself. Instead of exchanging ideas, you are excluded if you don’t follow the majority. That is currently best visible in politics and mainstream. The different opinions presented are part of the comedy being played. What is more interesting is to see the purpose behind. Moreover, the mechanism is more hidden in corporations, because it is more pending on the common values a company lives. Instead of a comedy, it is more a like a constraint.
Why we should pay more attention to the outsiders
Why should we pay more attention to the outsiders? Those people disturb, however, they often say the truth. Remember the court jester in the old days? Today, when the children in school are not adapted, they are made well-behaved with medication.
In fact, the detractor points out the pain, the things which are going wrong and are defamed by the majority. These people make us the topics aware, which are causing the pain. The majority opinion does not want that we recognize our real deep pain and begin with cleaning up ourselves. Because it is about changing the current structures towards self-determination and that is a threat to the ones who are in power.
Introspection
Whether you are a leader, manager or employee – ask yourself: Can you maintain your opinion? Can you speak for yourself? Can you remain authentic? What is your truth without defaming the other person who has an opposite opinion? Try to analyze your behavior and try to understand how you are viewed by your team. From this self-assessment, look at what you do well and where you can improve.
Look at the change and transformation programs in corporations: decisions about the future should consider what it means for the person who is impacted. The incapability of compassion, intuition, empathy, seeking balance, understanding the consequences of cause and effect show pretty good why things are going in the wrong direction.
Looking at the other people impacted is only one perspective. What about yourself? When we see a person in crisis or suffering, most of us are somewhat good at extending our compassion. However, when we are hurt, we mostly omit to give the same kindness to ourselves.
If you want to get out of the gap, don’t wait until it is too late. Most people know that they are not living the life they want and still continue until they get a burnout or become sick. Then, when it is almost too late, they start to think about what they did wrong. The question is: why are so many highly compassioned people reluctant to turn their kindness inwards?
By entering new awareness levels, you need to clean up the rooms on your new inner floor reached. Where are your dark parts which are mirrored to you from your “enemies”? What kind of life do I follow which burdens my future? Do I know the power of bad habits and how can I change them?
The suppressed anger and traumas carrying with us are now emerged, visible and recognized. This is a good sign because we can start with the cleanup. The crisis is required to start questioning your own contribution to this crisis. This is not about accusation or to condemn yourself, it is about a total commitment to introspection.
You will realize the difference between solving your own problems instead of receiving a salvation from the outside. One recognition is when you stop blaming others or the collective madness. Another recognition is when you become a listener and the non-language of awareness reaches your soul and strikes a responsive chord. It really has to go into your DNA. You have to feel it.
You become much more relaxed and you welcome more moments of silence. Reflection and self-examination will help to become clearer. You will see through the fog and clouds and you can carry your old beliefs and conditions to the grave of illusions. Your actions will change. You will reach a new level and your responsibilities and complexity rises. You need to think beyond your skills, it is about your integrity and being authentic. Be aware of relationships, power and influence because we tend to respond to others in the same way we are treated.
Finding the reset button
The truth is always uncomfortable when the illusion collapses. The truth is simple. Why is simplicity so complex? Isn’t that a paradox? As long as we recognize that we are deceived in the measure about our self-worth, it is not complex. The lies are sold with liberation. Eventually, the individual and the society are the two poles. The art of dealing with enriched relations begins with the confession and the search of one’s own weaknesses, mistakes, disabilities and limitations. The big question that challenges us all our lives is, “Who am I really?” and not, as we are suggested, “How shall I be?”
Once you recognize this, it is the real life. When your inner experience is in accordance of what you can do and what you are doing – you are at peace with the world and yourself. Do not follow anyone, live yourself! If you are in peace with yourself and what is around you, you can easily cope with others.
Deciding freely requires not only clarity what I really want, but the experience of the feeling, as if the achievement had already been there. So when I decide for a task that gives me pleasure, it is not just about choosing out of my heart but above all, by feeling and experiencing this joy at the present moment.
If you become the observer of the theater and the game, you stand above the pendulum of the comedies and dramas. You will not let yourself be dragged into the game.
Do not take the old rules of the game for granted. Systems raise and eventually fall apart.
Not so frequently asked questions
Consider the rules of attraction. In their books “New Beginnings” Esther and Jerry Hicks asked some good questions which come to the point.
- How many people who are part of your life have you attracted? Answer: All.
- How much of your life do you control? Answer 100%
- How many other people create something in your reality? Answer: No one.
- How many other people bear responsibility for what you experience? Answer: No one.
- What role does happiness or coincidence play in your life? Answer: None at all.
- Who is the sole and sole creator of your reality? Answer: You.
Choose life!